Sunday, September 03, 2006

The Marital Pyramid

Today Svc was so good it will touch my heart and during when Pastor Kong pray for the whole church and the presence of God is there and when Pastor Kong said put your hand like a little cup and said this prayer together with Pastor Kong, When after i finish saying the prayer i start to cry and really feel a relest in me to really break over the wall of emotion. and i cry and cry to the end of the svc.

The Marital Pyramid

Law 1 : Healty individuals make happy marriages
Law 2 : Marriage is an Emotion Magnifier
Law 3: Communication is the key to a happy maffiage relationship

Layer 1: individual EMOTIONAL and mental health
Layer 2: Communication Skills
Layer 3: Conflict Management
Layer 4: Intimacy

INDIVIDUAL EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL HEATH
Deep within our soul, we all carry our "Inner Child of the past"
That is a set of feeling and Attitudes brought from our childhood.

UNDERSTANDING YOUR EMOTUONAL PROGRAMMING
Eac od us has an EMOTION PROGRAMMING from our past that prevents us from loving, and being loved the way we want.

DYSFUNCTIONAL PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP

1. Learn Behaviors
2. Bitterroot Judgment
3. Emotion Wounds from Childhood
4. Inner Vows

DEALING WITH TOXIC BEHAVIORS, EMOTIONAL WOUNDS, BITTERROOT JUDGMENT AND INNER VOWS

1. Confess that you have a problem (1 John 1: 9)
2. Forgive those who have hurt you, especially your parents (Matt. 6: 15)
3. Ask God (Mark 11: 25 -26)
4.Release all your hurts t Jesus (1 Peter 5: 7)
5. Receive Healing from Him (Luke 4: 18)
6. Reconcile, whenever possible (Matt 5: 23 - 24, James 5: 16)
7. Make Restituation, whenever possible (luke 19: 8)

From
Letter TO GOD

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